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learning-to-let-go

Do you need to let go? What would you enjoy changing in your personal life? What ambitions are you aspiring to, but aren’t doing because of preconceived notions or a set of conditions that are damaging the way you think? What are you harboring that you recognize isn’t for you any longer? What relationship has stopped you?

What huge change are you putting off? Are you feeling more solace in distressed familiarity instead of delving into alien territories? What vocation changes, possibly even an overall change of direction, may bring about more gratification?

Letting go is merely arriving at a decision – no more allowing something from the past tense to influence your life today or to cut down your inner sense of peace and welfare. So all you have to do is to relinquish the beliefs and mental attitudes that keep you from receiving the pleasure of the moment. The issue comes in discovering precisely what that means; we have so many notions that keep us from living in the present moment, from becoming content and peaceful inside.

A daily decision and dedication to making positive thinking top priority is critical. It’s neither the win nor the loss that makes an individual victorious, only the beliefs and perception one has concerning self. Favorable perception and self-affirmation is the opening move to personal empowerment.

Life is a series of selections of how to act. Frequently we make these choices mechanically, without truly being cognizant of what we’re selecting or why. But regardless of what anybody does in any facet of their lives, it’s still a choice they’ve made.

So start to learn how to let all your life become one big let-go experience and then see what happens next. Allow every day to unfold for you not as you’d choose but to show you your true nature.

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Sometimes pursuing your goals can be exhausting. I had spent hours planning a photoshoot for my new product, only to be let down by the colors of my labels, the lighting, and the sunlight. I was disappointed and got very emotional. I also spent over 18 hours looking for a Web developer to design a new web application for my start-up business, and it has been overwhelming combing through hundreds of messages, jumping on one Skype call and another.
Building a dream can be time-consuming the journey of getting to the point where you can show off what you’ve been building, can feel like hell. Most times we forget that the journey is part of the dream. It is all-encompassing, its the full package.

Dreams are sometimes like that, they are never as expected. We plan things out perfectly in our heads but reality gives us a check and we must adjust accordingly. There are several ways to combat the funk that comes up when things don’t work out as planned.

#1: Let it flow. Sometimes what we focus so much on perfecting isn’t always necessary. In the case of my photoshoot, I focused on the positives, adjusted a few things and went along with the process.

#2: Don’t get funky: it’s easy to get upset, discouraged, and downright funky because you didn’t have your way. You have to keep one thing in mind (nothing good comes easy). Always remember that when next you hit a block on your way to greatness. In my case, I focused only on the positive and put a spin on the photoshoot.

#3: Step back: One way to not flat line and kill your dream, is to step back and re-access; ideas can come at us with grandeur and our budget, skills, and resource can’t make it out the way we see it in our heads. It’s okay to step back and find another angle to accomplish your goals without losing your mind.

The truth is your dreams have a life of their own. They may not always take the intended course but be rest assured that they will come true.

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