Browsing Tag: Marriage

bachelor-life-spinster

Recently, a classmate of mine walked up to me beaming with smiles. “Hi dear, I would like to inform you about my wedding coming up in October. I know it is still months away but I just want to ensure you are carried along.”Of course, many congratulations and hugs came up as I received the news. It was great news that finally, someone from our class was getting married. It also brought to mind many other friends, in different courses, who had gotten married or were also about to.It was interesting and also a bit sobering.I wondered…

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adultery-side-chick-takes

A young man of 20-26 years is pining away somewhere as a result of sex deprivation. He does not want to commit sexual crimes, he also does not have the money to sustain a relationship. Relationships are becoming really expensive by the way, so he cannot just jump at any available girl. Nobody wants to wake up forty years later with the wrong woman. So he decides to visit the hooker, she is just the appropriate answer to his immediate needs. There is hardly a perfect sexual relationship before, during and after marriage (in case of divorce). The libidos…

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married-wrong-person

It’s everyone’s desire to have a great relationship, we all want to love and be loved. We grow up with the notion that God is love and anyone who does not have God cannot love, this may be a misconception. Why do we always drag God into our mess? I think it is the instinctive nature of man to avoid taking responsibility. After the initial euphoria of love, courtship, and wedding, we may start asking “did God choose the wrong person for me?”.Adam pointed at Eve and she pointed at the snake,  humans have always wanted any…

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put-romance-back-marriage

Conflicts, High Expectations, broken dreams, these are only a few things that bring disharmony and stress to a marriage. Sometimes you need to rekindle the romance that you once had.“A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” – Pearl S. BuckWhen two people get married, it means they are making a big commitment. It means they should stay with each other through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do them part. Getting into a marriage relationship is the sign of…

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tolerance-lasting-marriage

I once stayed with three other ladies in a room for a month; it’s an experience worth remembering anytime and any day. It seems so difficult for ladies of the different race to stay in the same room for something close to a month without causing chaos and nursing grudges but I stayed with these ladies peacefully.The magic was just tolerance. We tolerated each other’s shortcomings, tolerated each other’s faults, we tolerated each other’s wrongs, etc. The number of things we had in common could not measure up to the ones we didn’t have…

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